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What are your spiritual goals?

Posted on Feb 1st, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for January 31, 2009:

...to evolve into my highest self, to love,  be love, and be, together with you all. 

What motivates me? That we are in this journey and adventure together makes it all the more worth taking.
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What does your intuition sound like?

Posted on Feb 1st, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for January 29, 2009:

My inner wisdom speaks with confidence and perfect timing. It comes in a variety of sounds - mostly in silence, sometimes through music, the sound of waves - gentle to tumultous, a fluttering butterfly, the voice of a child or a parent or an ageless spirit, a whisper, a yodel, a breeze, a blowing wind or storm, a cricket or a bug, a  hummingbird, a breath-taking scenery or event, countless possibilities. But always a loving sound that I can't help but listen to.

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Do you try to love unconditionally?

Posted on Feb 2nd, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 01, 2009:

As Yoda and Nike would put it, "No try, just do it!"

I guess the intention to do so lies there within and I may fumble at times but I can always go back and do it again and again and again....

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Have you been thinking more of the past or the future?

Posted on Feb 3rd, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 03, 2009:

Over the past few weeks, my thoughts have veered more towards the future as we await our big relocation. It looks like we'll know for sure tomorrow. Won't be able to sleep tonight!

I've also had this buyer who ordered samples of their own designs beginning of the year and the work on these seems endless. They don't know for sure what yarn content they want and they are in such a rush, causing some upheavals in my relations with our workers.  This is taxing my patience and I can't wait to finish the work, and hopefully get the big order soon.


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The dawning of our next life adventure

Posted on Feb 4th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
YES, I have now caught a glimpse of our next adventure - life in Canada!

Got our visas - WOOHOOOO! The 3Ms - Megh, Mila & Milind - leapt with joy this morning! Grateful for this blessing, now breathing in and breathing out!

While the excitement has subsided by now, as I meander back into the flow of living, I am reminded of the restlessness I felt a few days back and my Mom's remarks that it will come at the perfect time. So it did. Am also reminded of my first visit to Vancouver back in 1981, when I said to myself "I love the energy of this place and wouldn't mind to live here one day".

And so, on with the preparations...

Have informed my families in Seattle & Manila and elsewhere and called up friends.

Delighted to share these with you at this very moment.

HUGS!

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What music has made the biggest difference in your life?

Posted on Feb 4th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 04, 2009:

...the love inside me, the music of my heart

...and music from the heart

N'sync & Gloria Estefan - Music Of My Heart

Oliver Koletzki - Music From The Heart



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Gratitude for your enemy

Posted on Feb 4th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila

Now, there are many, many people in the world, but relatively few with whom we interact, and even fewer who cause us problems. So, when you come across such a chance for practicing patience and tolerance, you should treat it with gratitude. It is rare. Just as having unexpectedly found a treasure in your own house, you should be happy and grateful to your enemy for providing that precious opportunity.

~ His Holiness the Dalai Lama
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What religious figure would you like to have met?

Posted on Feb 5th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 05, 2009:

You mean meet face to face, I would prefer chance encounters. I like to be surprised.  And if I do get to meet one whom I know (Jesus, Buddha, the Dalai Lama, etc) that would be thrilling! Othewise, I wonder whether I'll find the figure religious or not. Both ways, it shall be a blessing!
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What would you like to come back as?

Posted on Feb 6th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 06, 2009:

Do we really have a choice? 

Let me share this one from Deepak Chopra.

Our Creative Leap in the Afterlife

Courtesy care2.com

When people wonder if the personality survives death, the answer is that the personality doesn’t even survive while we are alive. We are not the same person we were five, 10, or 15 years ago and it would be a sorry state if we were.

Our personalities are constantly evolving, transforming, growing. If the question becomes “Does the individual survive death?” the answer is “What’s an individual?” In reality what we call “me” is different from day to day, week to week, year to year. Which individual are you talking about, the young person who is in love and full of romance and desire, or the child who was full of innocence and wonder? Perhaps we must wait for the one who is senescent and dying. Which one would you survive as?

Perhaps none. Vedanta tells us that the afterlife brings the opportunity for a creative leap. As our choices continue to expand, we will experience a new reality that is far richer than the conventional notion of heaven.

The biggest difference is that in the afterlife the input of the five senses no longer stimulates us. The furniture of the mind has been cleared away, leaving a space that is both inside and outside ourselves. It is full of possibilities. Anything can be born there. In this dream space we realize the transience of all things and the immensity of the unknown.

The stage of “crossing over”–the temporary realm preceding the full experience of the afterlife–still feels personal. People report seeing their deceased friends and relations, for example. The dying person continues to see the room in which his body lies, and memories and associations keep tying him back to physical existence. The possibility of taking a creative leap has yet to be realized.

Adapted from Life After Death: The Burden of Proof, by Deepak Chopra (Harmony Books, 2006).


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The Power of Simplicity by Sri Chinmoy

Posted on Feb 7th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
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In modern life there are a seemingly endless series of options and avenues. At each turn, life seems to present numerous complications. It becomes hard to resist the allure of doing more things and trying to solve a myriad of problems. However, often we are consciously or unconsciously yearning for a more simple approach to life. If we can make an effort to bring more simplicity into our lives, we will find many benefits arise.

  1. Peace of Mind
    Simplicity doesn’t necessarily involve living in a Spartan hut. Real simplicity begins in the mind. If we have numerous anxieties and problems it is not possible to have peace of mind. Simplicity means we learn to clear the mind and not allow ourselves to be bombarded by an endless stream of needless thoughts.
  2. Living in the present
    Complication in life arises because often we are worrying and planning about the future. We can become so concerned about what may happen tomorrow or next year that we forget to enjoy the present moment. To have one’s focus on the here and now, is to encompass life as it is supposed to be.
  3. Less Planning and Thinking
    When we complicate life through our endless planning we bring tomorrow’s problems into today. Yet it is always worth remembering that our worries and fears about the future often prove to be groundless.
  4. Avoiding Judgment
    It is part of human nature to criticize and judge other people. It is very easy to make a long list of complaints and suggestions about other people. But does it help us when we highlight the faults of others? We should feel that we are not responsible for other people’s thoughts and behavior. If we feel it is our bounden duty to change others, there can be no simplicity and peace in our life. Rather than try to change others, let us just try to focus on changing ourselves. Our own weaknesses are probably more than enough to deal with
  5. Focus and Achievement
    Simplicity enables more to be achieved. Simplicity means that we are focused on one thing at a time. Simplicity means we can put all our concentration on just one thing. If we perform an action with no distractions then we can fulfill it quicker and more successfully. Often when we simplify our life we find we can actually achieve more than when we juggled several things at once.

The simpler we can become, the sooner we shall reach our destination. A life of simplicity is a life of constant progress. It is in simplicity that we can make the fastest progress, progress which is everlasting. ~ Sri Chinmoy

  1. Simplicity and Beauty
    Simplicity is often synonymous with beauty. For example, Zen gardens are at once simple, yet in that simplicity there is a beauty, which appeals to our soul. It is the same with Mother Nature; the essence of nature is its unspoilt beauty. Has man ever been able to improve on the beauty and simplicity of nature?
  2. Happiness
    Be happy with what we have. As George Bernard Shaw aptly said

“There are two tragedies in life. One is not to get your heart’s desire; the other is to get it.”

The nature of desire is that the more we get the more we want. When we get a new car, often after a while we are not satisfied and want to get something better. However real happiness comes when we are content with what we have and are free of desire

 

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What do you search for within yourself?

Posted on Feb 8th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 08, 2009:

Whatever naturally arises - a hidden meaning, an answer, a question, you, peace, joy, hope, and everything else I may not even know of as yet. Everything that matters is there within myself (yourself).

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What do you most need to learn?

Posted on Feb 9th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 09, 2009:

...not wasting a learning opportunity by being mindful of what is there to learn.

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Valentine's Day e-cards with a difference

Posted on Feb 13th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila

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To all my friends

Happy Valentine's Day!

Valentine's Day eCards

Send a Valentine's Day eCard for a new approach to a romantic day! Whether you're serious or silly, you'll find the right card here.

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The History of Valentine's Day from care2.com

Posted on Feb 13th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila

The origins of Valentine's Day trace back to the ancient Roman celebration of Lupercalia. Held on February 15, Lupercalia honored the gods Lupercus and Faunus, as well as the legendary founders of Rome, Romulus and Remus.

In addition to a bountiful feast, Lupercalia festivities are purported to have included the pairing of young women and men. Men would draw women's names from a box, and each couple would be paired until next year's celebration.

While this pairing of couples set the tone for today's holiday, it wasn't called "Valentine's Day" until a priest named Valentine came along. Valentine, a romantic at heart, disobeyed Emperor Claudius II's decree that soldiers remain bachelors. Claudius handed down this decree believing that soldiers would be distracted and unable to concentrate on fighting if they were married or engaged. Valentine defied the emperor and secretly performed marriage ceremonies. As a result of his defiance, Valentine was put to death on February 14.

After Valentine's death, he was named a saint. As Christianity spread through Rome, the priests moved Lupercalia from February 15 to February 14 and renamed it St. Valentine's Day to honor Saint Valentine.

What's Cupid Got to Do with It?

According to Roman mythology, Cupid was the son of Venus, the goddess of love and beauty. Cupid was known to cause people to fall in love by shooting them with his magical arrows. But Cupid didn't just cause others to fall in love - he himself fell deeply in love.

As legend has it, Cupid fell in love with a mortal maiden named Psyche. Cupid married Psyche, but Venus, jealous of Psyche's beauty, forbade her daughter-in-law to look at Cupid. Psyche, of course, couldn't resist temptation and sneaked a peek at her handsome husband. As punishment, Venus demanded that she perform three hard tasks, the last of which caused Psyche's death.

Cupid brought Psyche back to life and the gods, moved by their love, granted Pysche immortality. Cupid thus represents the heart and Psyche the (struggles of the) human soul.

Fun Facts

  • Approximately 1 billion Valentine's Day cards are sent each year. Half of those are sent through Care2 (OK, maybe not HALF... or even half of half... but we are growing fast!)
  • In order of popularity, Valentine's Day cards are given to: teachers, children, mothers, wives, sweethearts, Koko the gorilla.
  • The expression "wearing your heart on your sleeve" comes from a Valentine's Day party tradition. Young women would write their names on slips of paper to be drawn by young men. A man would then wear a woman's name on his sleeve to claim her as his valentine.

Happy Valentine's Day!

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What have you learned about love?

Posted on Feb 13th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 13, 2009:

...that all we need is love and when we let it flow, we experience its wonder.

~ to be love
~ to give love
~ to receive love

...that love is all that matters.

I am, you are, we are LOVE!

Love is a river that keeps flowing until it reaches its source.

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Global Financial Crisis: Are Women the Antidote?

Posted on Feb 13th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
     

Blog posted by Tracy Viselli at Protect Women's Rights at care2.com

I don't know about you, but watching yesterday's Bank CEO's testify in front of Congress was extremely satisfying if not entirely useful. And have you noticed that every CEO or executive appearing before Congress has been male?  I have, and I'm not the only one.

Would having more women in senior executive positions in the financial industry have prevented the world-wide financial crisis we are current experiencing?  It's a question worth asking, and according to a Washington Post article published yesterday, that question is being asked by government officials, economists and everyday citizens in several countries whose economies have been effected by the behavior of so many "alpha males" who dominate the financial industry:

As the global financial crisis deepens, the first rumblings of a gender revolution are underway in an industry long controlled by men.

Banks, hedge funds and other financial organizations that have led the international economy's downward spiral are overwhelmingly male-dominated. The regulators and legislators assigned to oversee the financiers are also mostly men.

"There are quite a lot of alpha males with testosterone steaming out their ears," said Stuart Fraser, one of London's top financial sector officials.

Michel Ferrary, a professor at the business school Ceram in France, believes that gender balance is the key to taming the culture of risk-taking that has dominated the financial sectors of many nations.  Ferrary recently conducted a study (see below) in which he found that banks with greater gender balance have navigated the economic crisis far better than banks with less gender balance.

While I'm never a fan of the kind of essentialist thinking that presumes women would behave better or more morally in situations simply because they are women, challenging ourselves and our culture on the issue of gender balance in the workplace can only help mitigate the alpha male behavior experts and officials are criticizing today. Not only would greater gender balance add new voices and perspectives to boardrooms and C-suites in all industries, greater gender balance also has the potential to counteract the unhealthy culture of risk prominently on display in yesterday's Congressional hearings.


CERAM Business School Research

newspapers.jpg“Women: the Antidote to the Financial Crisis”

So goes the headline for the article in Elle magazine, as well as Le Monde, presenting CERAM’s Professor Michel Ferrary’s research which shows that firms with a higher ratio of women in management have better resisted the financial crisis.

Nearly all of the French national press: Le Monde, Le Figaro, Libération, Les Echos, La Tribune, L’Express have run stories on Professor Ferrary’s research paper: “When Gender Diversity Protects Stock Prices from the Crash”. The international press is just beginning to pick up the trail on this story.

Michel Ferrary is a professor of Human Resources at CERAM.

Using data from companies in the CAC40 (equivalent to the FTSE 100 / Dow Jones), Professor Ferrary shows that the fewer women a company has in its management, the greater the drop in its share price since the beginning of the year; and the more women in management, the smaller the drop in share price.

Of French banks, BNP-Paribas has best resisted the crisis. Since January, its stock only decreased by 20% ; 38.7% of its managers are women. By comparison, Credit Agricole’s stock decreased by 50% and only 16% of its managers are women.

Firms with a highly feminized management like LVMH (56% female managers), Sanofi (44.8%) have gone down less than the CAC40. While stocks of more male-managed firms like Alcatel-Lucent (8.68% women), Renault (21.77% women) have fallen more than the CAC40.

“Feminization of management seems to be a protection against financial crisis. Currently, financial markets value firms that took less risk and are doing more stable business” Explains Ferrary in his paper.

 “Several gender studies have pointed out that women behave and manage in a different way than men. They tend to avoid risk and to focus more on a long term perspective. A larger proportion of female managers balances the risk taking behaviour of their male colleagues.”

Ferrary highlights two remaining questions:

• More female managers = better business performance ?

or:

• More gender diversity in management = better business performance ?

 

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Love is a butterfly

Posted on Feb 13th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
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How do you know when you're on the right path?

Posted on Feb 15th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 15, 2009:

I feel happy, so I guess when you're on the right path, you feel so! And I know so as I go with the flow and allow love to flow!
 
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A taste of serious wit

Posted on Feb 16th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
A friend passed this on, and I just did, too. Enjoy and do whatever you like with them.

  1. Never argue with an idiot. They drag you down to their level then beat you with experience!


  2. Accept that some days you're the pigeon, and some days you're the statue.


  3. If you're too open minded, your brains will fall out.


  4. Age is a very high price to pay for maturity.


  5. Going to church doesn't make you a Christian any more than going to a garage makes you a mechanic.


  6. Artificial intelligence is no match for natural stupidity.


  7. My idea of housework is to sweep the room with a glance.


  8. It is easier to get forgiveness than permission.


  9. For every action, there is an equal and opposite government program.


  10. If you look like your passport picture, you probably need the trip.


  11. Bills travel through the mail at twice the speed of cheques.


  12. A conscience is what hurts when all your other parts feel so good.


  13. Junk is something you've kept for years and throw away two weeks before you need it.


  14. Experience is a wonderful thing. It enables you to recognize a mistake when you make it again.


  15. By the time you can make ends meet, they move the ends.


  16. Thou shalt not weigh more than thy refrigerator.
(I got a mini bar!)
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Rethinking the Food Pyramid: Mindfulness - the Missing Ingredient

Posted on Feb 16th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila

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Rethinking the Food Pyramid: Mindfulness - the Missing Ingredient

by Pavel Somov, taken from intent.com

02/14/2009

Eating changes both body and mind, the total of who we are. What we eat and how much we eat changes who we are physiologically. Why we eat and how we eat changes who we are psychologically.

Mindlessness is Blindness

When we eat mindlessly, the body expands (to the extent to which mindless eating leads to overeating) and the mind shrinks (to the extent to which mindless eating denies us the experience of eating). After all being mindless means just that: being of less mind. Mindlessness hides the reality and robs us of the experience.

I am sure you are familiar with this experience of having no experience: you get into the car, you start driving, half an hour later you are at your destination, but as you look back you don't remember the actual experience of driving. We've learned not to be puzzled by that. "Highway hypnosis," we think and move on. It's the same with eating, a kitchen-table hypnosis of sorts. You shop, you cook, you set up the meal, you turn the TV on and several mindless minutes later, you are done: your stomach is full but your mind is empty, and you are craving seconds just to have the very experience of eating you missed in the first place.

Mindfulness is Vision

When we eat mindfully, the body shrinks (to the extent to which mindful eating reduces mindless overeating), and the mind expands. After all being mindful means just that: having a full mind. Mindfulness is vision. Mindfulness reveals the reality of what is, in all its nuanced, complex and unique such-ness. The traditions of saying grace (to infuse a moment of spiritual gratitude into a meal), the Zen tradition of Oryoki (a form of meditative eating designed to facilitate here-and-now presence), the veganism movement (with its attempt to manifest one's ethics of compassion through eating) -- these and many other traditions have all recognized that eating can serve as an invaluable existential platform for awakening the zombie in us. Whereas mindless eating robs us of the experience, mindful eating allows us to reclaim the eating moments of our lives.

According to the Center for Mindful Eating, a multidisciplinary forum for "developing, deepening and understanding the value and importance of mindful eating," "mindful eating has the powerful potential to transform people's relationship to food and eating, to improve overall health, body image, relationships and self-esteem." The recent years have witnessed an emerging self-help and clinical literature on mindfulness-based counseling for overeating and binge-eating.

Therefore, it would appear that mindful eating is, indeed, the missing ingredient of the USDA Food Pyramid. The addition of an eye atop the food pyramid would cue the public to the importance of eating with both short- and long-term vision, with here-and-now tactical awareness of the process of eating and with the strategic vision of how the behavior of eating fits with their overall living philosophy.

The symbol of the all-seeing-eye-at-the-top-of-a-pyramid traces its origin back to ancient Egypt and indicates "that the dead god is entombed in the underworld but is still watchful," and "the open eye is his soul that is still alive, so he knows what is happening in the world" (Sandra Forty, Symbols, p. 11). The symbol, however, has been sufficiently secularized by the fact that it appears on the $1 bill and has become largely accepted as a legitimate part of American iconography.

Eating is physiologically inevitable, but mindfulness isn't. Associating eating with mindfulness, one meal at a time, can help us not only manage weight (by reducing mindless overeating) but also to nourish and enrich the mind.

Pavel Somov, Ph.D. is the author of "Eating the Moment: 141 Mindful Practices to Overcome Overeating One Meal at a Time" (New Harbinger, 2008).

Additional reading from The Center for Mindful Eating: The Principles of Mindful Eating - PDF 110kb

 

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Amazing device pumps well water with no moving parts

Posted on Feb 16th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
Amazing device pumps well water using compressed air! (Health Ran


(NaturalNews) Mike Adams, the Health Ranger, is a fan of simple, innovative solutions for sustainable living. In a new video recorded in Vilcabamba, Ecuador, Adams demonstrates the Brumby Pump (www.BrumbyPumps.com), an amazing water pump that has no moving parts and uses no electricity.

The Brumby Pump uses nothing but compressed air to pump enormous quantities of water out of wells. In this video, Adams uses a low-cost 2-horsepower air compressor running on a common 110-volt electrical line to pump startling quantities of water from a 20-meter well. The water is used to irrigate garden crops, many of which are donated to low-income families in the local community.

Adams chose the Brumby Pump due to the high cost of purchasing traditional electric well pumps as well as the mechanical simplicity of the Brumby Pump, which runs on compressed air. "I wanted a simple, low-cost pump that would last at least ten years without needing repairs or maintenance," Adams said. "Traditional electric pumps simply can't achieve that, and it's difficult to find parts for them in rural Ecuador."

The video shows Adams connecting the air hose to the pump, lowering it into the well, turning it on and producing enormous flows of water and air out of the return hose. In his set up, this water is pumped to a surface holding take, from which a second pump pushes the water through irrigation sprinklers.

"This configuration is incredibly easy to maintain because there are no motors or moving parts down in the well," Adams explained. "Everything is right on the surface, where it's easy to reach and easy to maintain." Adams also says the air compressor could easily be driven by solar power, making this irrigation solution suitable for remote areas in developing countries.

Adams has no financial stake in the Brumby Pump and received no compensation to review and publicize the pump. He purchased it from the manufacturer in Australia just like any other customer.
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Where did you come from?

Posted on Feb 18th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 18, 2009:

Connection
...the seed of love which is now blossomming with all the other seeds of love, paving the way towards a brighter and more magical world.

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"LOVE", Mixed Media, water Color & Oil on canvas, Art by Phyllis Miller
Love is supported by the foundation of strength, the tree branches, provides the stability. Air & water provides living and everlasting cleansing. The green vegetation provides nourishment. the warmth of fire provides the seeds of love to flourish. I give you "LOVE":
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What will you never regret?

Posted on Feb 19th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 19, 2009:

Will never regret all of my life, coz every bit of it is leading to where I'm going to.

Diana Ross - Do You Know


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How Many Apples Can You Count?

Posted on Feb 19th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
I find this a good reminder to stay open to all possibilities. Read on and be inspired. From mercola.com

apple, childA teacher teaching math to 7-year-old Arnav asked him, "If I give you one apple and one apple and one apple, how many apples will you have?”

Within a few seconds Arnav replied confidently, "Four!"

The dismayed teacher was expecting an effortless correct answer (three). She was disappointed. "Maybe the child did not listen properly," she thought. She repeated, "Arnav, listen carefully. If I give you one apple and one apple and one apple, how many apples will you have?"

Arnav had seen the disappointment on his teacher's face. He calculated again on his fingers. But within him he was also searching for the answer that will make the teacher happy. His search for the answer was not for the correct one, but the one that will make his teacher happy.

This time hesitatingly he replied, "Four ..."

The disappointment stayed on the teacher's face. She remembered that Arnav liked strawberries. She thought maybe he doesn't like apples, and that is making him lose focus. This time with an exaggerated excitement and twinkling in her eyes she asked, "If I give you one strawberry and one strawberry and one strawberry, then how many will you have?"

Seeing the teacher happy, young Arnav calculated on his fingers again. There was no pressure on him, but a little on the teacher. She wanted her new approach to succeed.

With a hesitating smile young Arnav enquired, "Three?"

The teacher now had a victorious smile. Her approach had succeeded. She wanted to congratulate herself. But one last thing remained. Once again she asked him, "Now if I give you one apple and one apple and one more apple how many will you have?"

Promptly Arnav answered, "Four!"

The teacher was aghast. "How Arnav, how?" she demanded in a little stern and irritated voice.

In a voice that was low and hesitating, young Arnav replied, "Because I already have one apple in my bag."

The Moral of the Story?

When someone gives you an answer that is different from what you expect, don't think they are wrong. There may be an angle that you have not understood at all. You will have to listen and understand, but never listen with a predetermined notion.
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A lot of things words can't capture

Posted on Feb 20th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 20, 2009:

I think there's not only one thing, feeling or experience that words alone can fully capture. Words are limiting in general. For instance, words can only partly describe how I feel when I get mersmerized by the ocean, sunset, the mountainscape, or walking in the rain or spending joyful times with my husband and son, or feeling the warmth of love and friendship, or meeting a soulmate, or being touched by a work of art....oh so many more. Even the words 'wordless' and 'speechless' can't come close to it. I feel that feelings and experiences are meant to be felt and experienced, not necessarily put into words. Sometimes, such emotions inspire poetry or creating art that can evoke more of the experience than words can.
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Candlelight in my hand

Posted on Feb 21st, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 21, 2009:

Have had a candlelight in my hand
to guide me on my path
may it guide others, too
that cross my path.

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An angel of all sorts?

Posted on Feb 24th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 24, 2009:

..but am already one, to all my friends. But one thing I am wondering about is whether  I am a female or male or gay angel. I would like to be able to be all of them! And it would be great to be a cherub angel as well!

http://www.heavenlyconnection.co.uk/angel1.bmp

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Flowers of spring in my heart

Posted on Feb 25th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 25, 2009:

I would rather leave the weather to nature who's boss! Right now, feeling tired so welcoming a restful springy weather within and outside. Missing the flowers outside but relishing them in my heart!

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When love is a must, there's no 'must not'

Posted on Feb 26th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 26, 2009:

...the only MUST is love - to be love, to love, to grow in love, spread love. And when this MUST is there, then the MUST NOT doesn't arise. Think love and be  love and everything else that matters will follow and flow.

http://www.russianartist.info/gallery/valley_love_paint.jpg
"Valley of Love", abstract painting by Maria Skrebtsova

 


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My life story in six words

Posted on Feb 28th, 2009 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 27, 2009:

I slept over this question, awoke and got this answer:

Journey into self towards sacred love


Sacred Love by Mark  Goldstein
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