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Find out your blog author personality

Posted on Dec 1st, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
This is inspired by Keith's blog Gaia.com too masculine?

I clicked on http://uclassify.com and discovered

Typealyzer.com

This innovative site finds out the blog author personality, using a psychological text analysis. Check it out!

So went ahead and the result below:

The analysis indicates that the author of http://armila.gaia.com/blog is of the type:

INTP - The Thinkers

The logical and analytical type. They are especialy attuned to difficult creative and intellectual challenges and always look for something more complex to dig into. They are great at finding subtle connections between things and imagine far-reaching implications.

They enjoy working with complex things using a lot of concepts and imaginative models of reality. Since they are not very good at seeing and understanding the needs of other people, they might come across as arrogant, impatient and insensitive to people that need some time to understand what they are talking about.



Be sure not to miss the brain activity analysis below the personality result.

Then went and tried others' results as well:

ZOEY  Same as mine above

KEITH, ALEY, LARS, PERI

ISTP - The Mechanics

The independent and problem-solving type. They are especially attuned to the demands of the moment are masters of responding to challenges that arise spontaneously. They generally prefer to think things out for themselves and often avoid inter-personal conflicts.

The Mechanics enjoy working together with other independent and highly skilled people and often like seek fun and action both in their work and personal life. They enjoy adventure and risk such as in driving race cars or working as policemen and firefighters.











JANET

ESTP - The Doers

The active and play-ful type. They are especially attuned to people and things around them and often full of energy, talking, joking and engaging in physical out-door activities.

The Doers are happiest with action-filled work which craves their full attention and focus. They might be very impulsive and more keen on starting something new than following it through. They might have a problem with sitting still or remaining inactive for any period of time.











SAMME


Detected language Thai. The only supported languages are English and Swedish. But stay tuned, we are expanding.

Ahhh well? Try it and you be the judge!
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What is your wish for this month?

Posted on Dec 1st, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 01, 2008:

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Wonderful question for me! How I wish to get our passports back with our Canadian visa stamped, so we can get on with preparations for our relocation. It seems we're at the last stages but it seems forever.
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What was the most difficult promise you made?

Posted on Dec 3rd, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 02, 2008:

What I had found difficult (prefer no comparatives) in the past was resisting the habit of making promises that I can't keep, but my son was great at helping me (and my husband) overcome that.  If you promise him anything, he never forgets and his blessing has turned out to be mom and dad's as well.
 
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Darkness, light, darkness, light….

Posted on Dec 4th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
Child_plays_with_light_switch
Yesterday our government announced that we will have 45 hours of load shedding every week from today. That’s almost 7 hours a day (if they stick to the plan, it’s a 4 hourly cut-off), given that there would be 24 hours’ supply once a week. But the on and off management went haywire today, 3 hours it went off, came back and again went off after an hour. I don’t know how long before it gets switched off again. Made me reflect.

I wrote on my status “having electricity on and off, as if a child is playing with the grid switch”. I thought of my mind as that child playing tricks with me; lights off when it makes me think of and cling to my past or when it makes my imagination wander into and become anxious of the distant future. Lights on when I am absorbed in the moment, experiencing with all my senses everything around me. Well, I do have a choice whether to let my mind keep on doing its tricks, or telling it to stop.

 

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When do you most love coming home?

Posted on Dec 5th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 04, 2008:

Right now.


"Coming Home at Last" from the CD by Christina Lux


Coming home at last
Feels torn, frozen, tell me whom to forgive
No excuses, they just blow my fuses
My body says stop but my mind can’t follow
Maybe all my fright is actually hollow
is actually hollow?

Maybe it’ll be like fireworks on a starry night
Maybe like a blast of beautiful light
Maybe like giving birth to a beautiful child
Maybe it’s like coming home at last
I kick off my boots, I’ve worn them too long
It’s time to grow roots, time to grow strong
I’ve looked at too many scarred and bruised faces
I’m no longer willing to follow their traces

Maybe it’ll be like fireworks on a starlit night
Maybe like a blaze of beautiful light
Maybe like giving birth to a beautiful child
Maybe it’s like coming home at last
Maybe it’ll be like fireworks on a starry night
Maybe like a blast of wonderful vibes
Maybe like giving birth to a beautiful child
Maybe it’s like coming home at last

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What do you look forward to most about getting older?

Posted on Dec 5th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 05, 2008:

Nothing. I live by the moment.

 
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What do you believe about karma?

Posted on Dec 5th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 03, 2008:

Yes, I believe in karma's essence which is balance. But I don't go with the concept of bad and good karma.  What is good? What is bad? Passing judgement only creates imbalance, goes against karma.

There are laws of karma that different religions have come up with - You reap what you sow; What comes around, goes around....When we think that we are one, every one affects the whole one. What one does or does not do (consciously and not) have consequences to oneself, other selves and the whole one.  But the purpose of such laws is to keep the balance, and I believe that's how the Universe is mysteriously unfolding and evolving - into that perfect balance, into love.

I Can Believe


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Towards A Greener Life: Stick with what you got

Posted on Dec 6th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
From dothegreenthing.com

It’s a fact - we buy too much stuff. We think we need it but we don’t. It’s a compulsion, a fix. A little down? Hit the high street for some retail therapy. A little insecure? Spank your savings and buy the latest thing to show the world you’re as cool and happening as it is.

It’s a buy-quick throw-quick habit that’s got so bad that we only use 1% of the stuff we buy six months after we’ve bought it.

And making and transporting all that stuff, 99% of which we chuck out anyway, takes vast amounts of fossil fuel energy and produces huge amounts of CO2 and waste.

It also eats up raw materials. Rainforests are being logged, wildlife habitats destroyed, and indigenous communities displaced so we can carry on mining to produce the laptops, mp3 players and sweat-shirts that make us cooler (we think) but no happier.

The Story of Stuff - Ch.5: Consumption


 The things you own end up owning you. It's only after you lose everything that you're free to do anything. from "Fight Club" the film


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What makes someone easy to be with?

Posted on Dec 6th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 06, 2008:

The Kooks - Always Where I Need To Be

...feeling alive and yourself with that someone without a struggle. So qualities like lovingness, warmth, openness, lightheartedness, and acceptance of who you are without judgement. And I'm with Aley, being with that someone comfortably in silence and with Annika, humor and chocolate.
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Love is all, love is you...

Posted on Dec 6th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila

Inspired by the wedding season, the season of love. And Sherri's response "let's just love" to my recent blog about karma, here are two music videos to touch your soul:

           
Because - Across the Universe


Yanni - Reflections of Passion


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Rainmaker

Posted on Dec 6th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
Yanni - Rainmaker


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What would you miss most about your home?

Posted on Dec 7th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 07, 2008:

Referring to my physical home which is Kathmandu, it seems a most relevant question to reflect on before our impending relocation.

Will miss my in-laws and friends in the flesh for sure. Though we'll remain in touch by e-mail and over the phone there's a lot of difference feeling one another's physical presence, our live interactions and dramas. Will miss the backdrop - wonderful warm people in general, the vibrant culture (vibrant music, art, dance, festivals, weddings, babies' rice feeding ceremonies), the chaotic politics, the majestic Himalayan peaks towering over me in clear weather, the five S (sight, sound, smell, sense of community, and the spirit that is uniquely Kathmandu's), the street shops and cafes everywhere, so many more that fail to flash in my mind as I write this. Will miss our pet dog Setu (my sister-in-law has agreed to take him) and our pet fishes. Will miss our rented house (a Korean family is taking over from mid Jan) and our own apartment (we're moving back there from the new year when our tenant leaves) and the warm and friendly neighborhood. And these spaces will miss our company too! I better stop here before tears start to fall!

Nepali song

Sannani sang by Babu Bogati


aau auna_Nima Rumba


Nepali Pop - By Nabin Bhattarai


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What have you been the most naive about?

Posted on Dec 9th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 08, 2008:

Craig David - World Filled With Love


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Am generally naive, and want to be naive of most things, as I want to believe that the world is still a friendly and loving place.
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What do you want most right now?

Posted on Dec 9th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 09, 2008:

Birdie_love Dancing_tree_celebrates_love Mother_and_child_gorilla

I already have it, and will always have it to give and to receive - LOVE! I am and you are and we are love!

 
Christina Lux Live - To the World


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Water Dreams

Posted on Dec 9th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
Inspired by Taikunping's blog HAPPY CHRISTMAS


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Smiley in the sky

Posted on Dec 10th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
SMILEY IN THE SKY: The conjunction of Venus, Jupiter and the moon as seen from a partially cloudy Pokhara (in central Nepal) on 1 December.

PHOTO: KIRAN PANDAY
nepalitimes.com  posted 5 Dec 2008
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Who reminds you of yourself?

Posted on Dec 11th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 10, 2008:

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Not one person, but the family I was born in and my husband and son, all and each one of them. And not to forget, my universal family, afterall we are one!



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The Happy Planet Index

Posted on Dec 11th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
Inspired by the ongoing discussions on quality of life at the Gaia Networking pod where my friend Sherrilene is this month's featured member:

The UNhappy planet index

The Happy Planet Index is an innovative new measure that shows the ecological efficiency with which human well-being is delivered.

It is the first ever index to combine environmental impact with human well-being to measure the environmental efficiency with which country by country, people live long and happy lives.

By addressing the relative success or failure of countries in supporting good lives for their citizens, whilst respecting the environmental resource limits upon which our lives depend, the HPI has much to teach us. Analysing its results could help us to move towards a world where we can all live good lives without costing the earth.

European HPI

About the Happy Planet Index

The Happy Planet Index (HPI) is an innovative new measure that shows the ecological efficiency with which human well-being is delivered around the world. It is the first ever index to combine environmental impact with well-being to measure the environmental efficiency with which country by country, people live long and happy lives.

The Index doesn’t reveal the ‘happiest’ country in the world. It shows the relative efficiency with which nations convert the planet’s natural resources into long and happy lives for their citizens. The nations that top the Index aren’t the happiest places in the world, but the nations that score well show that achieving, long, happy lives without over-stretching the planet’s resources is possible. The HPI shows that around the world, high levels of resource consumption do not reliably produce high levels of well-being (life-satisfaction), and that it is possible to produce high levels of well-being without excessive consumption of the Earth’s resources. It also reveals that there are different routes to achieving comparable levels of well-being. The model followed by the West can provide widespread longevity and variable life satisfaction, but it does so only at a vast and ultimately counter-productive cost in terms of resource consumption.

The Happy Planet Index (HPI) strips the view of the economy back to its absolute basics: what we put in (resources), and what comes out (human lives of different length and happiness). The resulting Index of the 178 nations for which data is available, reveals that the world as a whole has a long way to go. In terms of delivering long and meaningful lives within the Earth’s environmental limits - all nations could do better. No country achieves an overall ‘high’ score on the Index, and no country does well on all three indicators.

No single country listed in the Happy Planet Index has everything right. We have to acknowledge from the start that while some countries are more efficient than others at delivering long, happy lives for their people, every country has its problems and no country performs as well as it could. Yet, fascinatingly, it is possible to see patterns emerging that point to how we might better achieve long and happy lives for all, whilst living within our environmental means.

The challenge will be whether we can learn the lessons of the HPI and apply them.

How it is calculated

The HPI reflects the average years of happy life produced by a given society, nation or group of nations, per unit of planetary resources consumed. Put another way, it represents the efficiency with which countries convert the earth’s finite resources into well-being experienced by their citizens.

The Global HPI incorporates three separate indicators: ecological footprint, life-satisfaction and life expectancy.

Conceptually, it is straight forward and intuitive:

HPI =
Life satisfaction x Life expectancy
x ß

Ecological Footprint + α

What it reveals

In an age of climate change, when it is more important than ever that we use our resources efficiently, the European Happy planet Index reveals that Europe as a whole is less carbon efficient at delivering human well-being in terms of relatively happy, long lives to its citizens than it was over 40 years ago.

Overall, the Index reveals that:

  • Iceland tops the Index. Scandinavian countries are the most efficient – achieving the highest levels of well-being in Europe at relatively low environmental cost with Sweden and Norway joining Iceland at the top of the HPI table.
  • Major European nations trail well behind – Spain performs best of a poor bunch coming in 12th, followed by Italy at 14th, Germany 15th and France 18th on the Index of carbon efficiency and well-being.
  • The UK trails well behind, coming 21st in the league of 30 nations. Only transition economies, and Portugal, Greece, and Luxembourg do worse.

Europe as a whole has become less efficient, not more, in translating fossil fuel use into relatively long and happy lives. In fact, the Index reveals that Europe is less carbon efficient now than it was in 1961.On current performance, Europe is not remotely close to navigating an economic course set to reach its desired location on climate policy. It needs to achieve a carbon footprint small enough to help prevent the planet warming by more than 2 degrees above pre-industrial levels. This requires cuts in emissions by industrialised nations of between 70 and 80 per cent by 2050 compared to 1990 levels according to Sir Nicholas Stern, author of the UK Treasury’s influential report on the economics of climate change.

Worse still, as the European Happy Planet Index reveals, Europe is heading in the wrong direction, its carbon footprint still growing, and its level of carbon efficiency in terms of fuelling happy, long lives is lower than it was over 40 years ago.

To reverse this trend, we need to look to the example of those European countries that are already the most efficient – some of the most socially progressive and technologically advanced nations anywhere in the world. Countries like Iceland, the highest scoring nation on the 2007 European Happy Planet Index clearly show that happiness doesn’t have to cost the earth. Iceland’s combination of strong social policies and extensive use of renewable energy demonstrate that living within our environmental means doesn’t mean sacrificing human well-being – in fact, it could even make us happier. Countries that have most closely followed the Anglo-Saxon, strongly market-led economic model show up as the least efficient on the Index.

Why do we need the Happy Planet Index?

In the Western world, economics is at the heart of our thinking about most issues. When we talk of growth or development, we are typically thinking about the distribution and flow of money. A nation’s progress is also most commonly measured in terms of GDP. Defined as the total value of a country’s annual output of goods and services. GDP is the standard measure of economic activity and the key headline indicator for government policy in the vast majority of countries.

GDP was never intended to function as an indicator of well-being. Even the economist Simon Küznets, a central figure in the development of GDP, in 1934 urged the US Congress to remember “The welfare of a nation can scarcely be inferred from a measurement of national income.” Yet, until quite recently, it has routinely been assumed to be a reliable proxy for standard of living.

The logic underlying this was that- growth in GDP implies economic activity, which in turn implies that people are spending money and improving their quality of life. But GDP turns out to be a poor indicator of welfare in several key respects. For a start, interpreting it as a standard-of-living measure means assuming that income is strongly correlated with national well-being, such that -all else being equal general well-being will increase as the economy grows. It has been repeatedly proven in recent years that this is simply not true. Undoubtedly, a relationship exists between income and well-being, but after a certain, surprisingly low level of GDP is reached, the strength of this relationship declines markedly.

GDP is also insensitive to the distribution of income within countries. A country with high rates of poverty, a small but affluent elite, and high exports could have a similar GDP per capita to one with comparably little inequality and a thriving domestic economy. GDP also fails to distinguish money spent correcting or compensating for undesirable events. This can lead to some apparently perverse results. For example, it has been estimated that the Enron accounting scandal may have contributed up to $1 billion to US GDP. Natural disasters - hurricanes, floods and so on -also tend to boost GDP, because huge amounts of public money are typically spent in mitigating the resulting damage. From an environmental perspective this is a disastrous oversight - GDP counts resource consumption, but takes no account whatsoever of the extent to which it can be maintained, or its real cost.

nef's Global Manifesto for a happier planet

nef’s Global Manifesto for a happier planet makes recommendations for each component of the HPI. The score that different nations achieve on constituent parts of the Index, provides an indication of which component policy-makers in countries around the world need to prioritise:

1. Eradicate extreme poverty and hunger.

2. Improve healthcare.

3. Relieve debt.

4. Shift values.

5. Support meaningful lives.

6. Empower people and promote good governance.

7. Identify environmental limits and design economic policy to work within them.

8. Design systems for sustainable consumption and production.

9. Work to tackle climate change.

10. Measure what matters.

Note: Please go to the site for the description of each of the above.

HPI and rankings of selected countries (based on most recent study 2006):

Australia HPI 34.1  Rank 139/178

Barbados HPI 52.7 Rank 43/178

Bhutan HPI 61.1 Rank 13/178

Canada HPI 39.8 Rank 111/178

China HPI 56  Rank 31/178

Denmark HPI 41.4 Rank 99/178

Germany HPI 43.8 Rank 81/178

India HPI 48.7 Rank 62/178

Israel HPI 39.1 Rank 117/178

Nepal HPI 50 Rank 54/178

Nigeria HPI 31.1 Rank 146/178

UK HPI 40.3 Rank 108/178

USA HPI 28.8 Rank 150/178

Vanuatu HPI 68.2 Rank 1/178

Philippines HPI 59.2 Rank 17/178

 

 

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What would you like to learn today?

Posted on Dec 11th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 11, 2008:

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What I learn flows naturally, it's not a matter of what I like. And every moment, I open myself to something to learn, unlearn, or re-learn! That's the magic of every moment!

"Dan Fogelberg--"Magic Every Moment"


Magic Every Moment

I awoke this morning to a shattering sound
And I went downstairs to find these shards of glass strewn all around.
And there upon the floor, I found this poor, broken dove.
And it made me realize how very fragile is this life that we so love.

I came back up to bed, and I held you so tight,
And I prayed up to the Father, oh I prayed with all my might
That he'd always keep you with me, that he'd always keep you safe,
And when I went downstairs, I found that dove had somehow up and flown away.

There's magic every moment.
There's miracles each day.
There's magic every moment.
Oh, won't you let the music play?
Won't you let the music play?

On a high and windy island, I was gazing out to sea,
When a long-forgotten feeling came and took control of me.
It was then the clouds burst open, and the sun came pouring through.
When it hit those dancing waters, in an instant all eternity I knew.

There's so much we take for granted, there's so much we never say.
We get caught up in the motions of just living day to day.
We are fettered to the future, we are prisoners of the past,
And we never seem to notice 'till our lives have finally slipped right through our grasp.

There's magic every moment.
There's miracles each day.
There's magic every moment.
Oh, won't you let the music play?
Won't you let the music play?

You can see forever in a single drop of dew.
You can see that same forever if you look down deep inside of you.
There's a spark of the Creator in every living thing.
He respects me when I work, but He so loves me when I sing.

There's magic every moment.
There's miracles each day.
There's magic every moment.
Oh, won't you let the music play?
Won't you let the music play?

There's magic every moment.
There's miracles each day.
There's magic every moment.
Oh, won't you let the music play?
Won't you let the music play?

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Health Benefits of Hula Hooping

Posted on Dec 11th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
Inspired by Janet

A fun activity to exercise one’s hips, back, buttocks and legs is hula hooping. This article gives an insight into the health benefits of hula hooping. Read on…

Health Benefits of Hula Hooping

Do you know "Hula Hooping" was an ancient invention? There are historical evidences to prove hooping was one of the exercises practiced by the Greeks. In olden days, hoops were made from wood, bamboo, grasses, vines and at times from metals such as iron and copper. The Hula-hoops that are available in the market today are made from safe plastics. Hooping as a toy for children was introduced in Great Britain in the 14th century. In the early 19th century, some British soldiers happened to witness "Hula" dancing in the islands of Hawaii. The hooping and hula dancing had some similarities because dancing used the hoops. Hence, the name Hula Hooping was given to this fun activity and exercise.

Is Hula Hooping an exercise?


Yes, hula hooping is an exercise and it dates back to the ancient Egyptian and Greek civilization. According to study conducted by the American Council on Exercise, hula hooping would burn around 200 calories in a day if you work out for half an hour.

Hula Hooping has been classified as an aerobic exercise that would increase the flexibility and strength of one’s body. It is considered as a low-intensity workout for most people. One of the fun and creative ways to lose weight is by hula hooping.

Health Benefits of Hula Hooping

Hula hooping is a fun game that you might have played as a kid. However, it is no more merely a childhood sport or activity. Today, it is a form of exercise that is surprisingly exhausting. Hula-hoops are available in sport accessories shops and the one that is used for exercising has a special tape that sticks to your body.

One of the health benefits of hula hooping is, it helps lose weight and increases the fitness level of the body.

Hula hooping helps increase the flow of blood to the brain. Hula hooping exercises are more reviving than a short nap. Regular hula hooping helps increase the energy level of the body.

Hula hooping exercises strengthens the waist, hips and the knees. This is another important health benefit of hula hooping.

The coordination of the body movement and breathing strengthens the torso muscles and enhances the flexibility of the spine. Hula hooping exercises promote the integral functions of our vital organs.

To tone the muscles of the arms roll the hula-hoop around your arm in circular motion. Hula hooping burns the unwanted fat in the midriff and tightens the stomach.

Hula hooping is a fun activity for children and adults. The idea of this exercise is keep the hoop moving on your hips as long as possible. More you exercise more the calories will you burn. If you want to work your waist and hips, place the hula-hoop on the waist and move around. You could place it on arms and legs to tone the muscles in those areas.

What are you waiting for? Switch on some fast-paced music and do a hula-hooping dance. This exercise will not only revive and refresh you but will also help you in burning the unwanted fat.

By Maya Pillai
Published: 9/9/2008
http://www.buzzle.com/articles/health-benefits-of-hula-hooping.html


Health Benefits of Hula Hooping

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What is the most difficult thing about love?

Posted on Dec 12th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 12, 2008:

I guess expressing it fully in words is difficult. It's much easier to feel it in your heart, and I think one can only express it, just partly, through poetry, music, dance, other forms of art, body language, or even silence!
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What is the best thing about anger?

Posted on Dec 13th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 13, 2008:

Anger gives you an opportunity to choose which one is the boss, anger or your inner self. It's hard to let anger go, and sometimes it may take time, but if you don't let it go, it has a devastating effect on yourself, not the other party.

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What is your idea of heaven?

Posted on Dec 14th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 14, 2008:

We're In Heaven

Heaven is a place where everything is fine and fun and loving. One can take on whatever form at one's whim - one moment an animated character, another moment a bright light, next a star, then water, a rainbow, an angel, and so on and so on. We can listen to energetic music or silence, we can play in the waves, astral travel, swim in chocolate, dance and play as much as we like....

I can go there anytime by going within and being with the divine. I'll meet you there.

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What is prayer?

Posted on Dec 15th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 15, 2008:

Prayer is connecting, communicating with the divine! It's two-way, speaking and listening! Yes, I pray so many times and I am deeply appreciative of those who offer their prayers for me and I do pray a lot for humanity, the universe, and others.

...and here's a prayer for my friends (past, present and future)! Namaste` and thank you for your/our friendship!

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The Sari Soldiers

Posted on Dec 15th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
The Sari Soldiers Trailer - Nepal - Julie Bridgham


I watched this film today.  It was the concluding film of the Kathmandu International Mountain Film Festival 2008 and the theater was filled to capacity. It's a very poignant and moving film about the strength and the power of Nepali women. I found the above trailer in youtube and I hope you get a chance to see the entire 90-minute documentary film, a collaboration between UK and Nepal. See details at www.sarisoldiers.com


"Filmed over three years during the most historic and pivotal time in Nepal's modern history, The Sari Soldiers is an extraordinary story of six women's courageous efforts to shape Nepal's future in the midst of an escalating civil war against Maoist insurgents, and the King's crackdown on civil liberties.

When Devi, mother of a 15-year-old girl, witnesses her niece being tortured and murdered by the Royal Nepal Army, she speaks publicly about the atrocity. The army abducts her daughter in retaliation, and Devi embarks on a three-year struggle to uncover her daughter's fate and see justice done.

The Sari Soldiers follows Devi and five other brave women, including Maoist Commander Kranti; Royal Nepal Army Officer Rajani; Krishna, a monarchist from a rural community who leads a rebellion against the Maoists; Mandira, a human rights lawyer; and Ram Kumari, a young student activist organising the protests to establish democracy. The Sari Soldiers intimately delves into the extraordinary journey of these women on all sides of the conflict, through the democratic revolution that reshapes the country's future."
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What question made the biggest impact on your life?

Posted on Dec 16th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 16, 2008:

There are many questions, but one that kept repeating from myself, family and friends is "Are you sure?"

That question pops up in every major (and even some minor) decision that I had ever made. Like when I decided to marry my husband who comes from a 'strange' place as my Mom used to say (She did even say why on earth was I marrying someone from Timbuktu! And I told her "Ma, Timbuktu is in Africa not in Nepal" - LOL!).  Before I reached that decision, I asked myself how sure I was about plunging into the marriage and uprooting myself.

When Megh and I decided that he would accept the job offer in The Gambia, we both asked ourselves the same question. When we decided to adopt Milind, after trying for several years to have our own child but couldn't, the same question blinked at us a number of times.

When I decided to leave a high-paying job back in 1997 to accept a much lower-paying job of heading a local NGO, the same question again! 

There were a lot more instances, but the important thing is I was sure glad that the final answers were always a big YES, without any regret.

Thank you Siona for this wonderful question!
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The panorama of the majestic Himalayas takes my breath away

Posted on Dec 17th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 17, 2008:

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Winter is the perfect time here to experience the majestic Himalayan peaks towering over me as I walk or drive at the right place and moment. And yesterday when I caught a glimpse of it, I was moved to tears.  Even if I have seen these panorama so many times, there are still those special moments that catch me in surprise and awe. The view is just not the same all the time. And they were even more awesome when we went to the resort town of Pokhara in October, as they are much nearer, though they were a bit shy and often veiled in mist at that time.
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When have you been the most happy?

Posted on Dec 18th, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 18, 2008:

For me, happiness is a state of being. I am just happy and I don't know about 'most happy'. And I can't resist to add, if I accept and know that I am love, then it follows that I accept and know that I am happy.
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Look within for the answer

Posted on Dec 21st, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 20, 2008:

My advice would be to look within themselves and find their own answers. Just listen to your inner voice, it's the best adviser, really!
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What song or poem or work of art best captures your mood?

Posted on Dec 23rd, 2008 by Mila : love Mila
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 23, 2008:

Contentment
This one.
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